Navigating Parenting Plans During a Divorce

June 23, 2021 in Articles | MARTIN WREN, P.C. | LEAVE A COMMENT

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Getting a divorce is no small matter, and it affects more than just the married couple. When there are children involved, the difficulty is only enhanced; now you have things like custody arrangements and visitation rights to consider, explains a family lawyer from a law firm like AttorneyBernie.Com. In messy cases, this can be especially traumatic for the whole family, but it doesn’t necessarily need to be. If you and your partner have decided to end things but agree to custody terms, you might be wondering if a lawyer is even necessary. Here are a few tips to help the two of you make the arrangements as smooth and painless as possible for the kids. 

Work as a Team

Regardless of your reasons for the split, your children should be the one place where you continue to work together. Remember, they will always keep you connected in one way or another, and it is so much simpler for everyone when both parents get along. This doesn’t just make it easier on the kids and the family, but courts and attorneys actually prefer it when you have a parenting plan set in place beforehand. Be civil and rational, and don’t let your pride or anger get in the way of what is really right for the kids. Work together and come to an agreement.

Seek Legal Help

Even if the two of you can find common ground on a custody arrangement ahead of time, it’s always a good idea to look into legal help. A family law professional can help you navigate the murkier areas of the legal system, so once you have a parenting plan you both agree on, it’s time to make it official. Find a family lawyer who can make these plans into legally binding documents. Even if you agree to a visitation plan outside of the court, a lawyer should still be consulted. This is not to “trap” anybody or make you feel intimidated — it’s more like a safeguard to ensure that the kids will be alright, no matter what happens in the future.

Always Think of the Children

Your divorce is going to have an impact on the little ones, regardless of how well you prepare them for what’s coming. Depending on their ages, they might not understand exactly why you decided to call it quits, but they understand emotions: grief, fear, and anxiety. Remember that they are stressed out and sad too. The easier you make things for your children, the smoother the process will go.

Divorce with children in the mix is a complicated matter. Find a family lawyer to help you through the challenges of forming a custody arrangement.


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