3 Factors to Consider before Filing for Divorce

May 19, 2022 in Uncategorized | MARTIN WREN, P.C. | LEAVE A COMMENT

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If you have major arguments with your spouse, then you could be left feeling frustrated and hopeless. Maybe you have two young children at home, and the thought of having to live away from your spouse is extremely difficult for you and the kids. There may still be love between you and your spouse, and you may want to consider other options, but divorce is always still on the table. As an alimony lawyer from a firm like the Law Office of Daniel E. Stuart, P.A. can explain, with or without children, and even in the most amicable of splits, divorce can be a pretty emotional, costly and turbulent process. Here are three things to consider before moving on to file for a divorce:

  1.   Cost

As many divorcees can tell you, a divorce is an expensive process that usually requires legal counsel throughout the entire process. Although it is always beneficial to acquire a lawyer for your case to help you decide on important things like alimony, child support and child custody, lawyers get paid by the hour and your legal bills can stack up.

  1.   Effect on children and yourself

Besides the cost of the divorce itself, you could be expected to pay alimony and/or child support if you are the higher earning and/or not the custodial spouse. This can prove to be difficult directly after a divorce.

If you have children, divorce can be especially difficult on them. A long process can be emotionally draining and despite your assurances that they are still loved and will be cared for. This is perhaps the most emotionally draining aspect of a divorce.

  1.   Trying Therapy First

There is still some stigma associated with seeing a therapist. However, the general outlook is changing every day, and people are much more accepting of seeking out a professional to help you deal with your problems.

One of the many ways a therapist can be helpful to you is by counseling you and your spouse through difficulties in your marriage. If the children are having difficulties as well, you can take them to a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. Therapy can go a long way and may even help you over a large marital hump.

If you are considering divorce but are not fully convinced it is the best option for you, consider visiting a family therapist to work on some of those issues. It can do wonders for you and your family and may even lead to a wonderful new future. Contact an MFT today!

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